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Is it possible to find love in just a few days? I have been talking with this woman on here, she says she really feels a connection between us and I feel the same way. We got on cam last night and she appeared to be everything she says she is. I think I have fallen in love with her. Is this possible?
I want some advice on how guys will talk to me if i do not make as much as they do? They seem to brush me off.
He suggested that we exchange numbers & left me his number. So I email him my number. Do I call him or do I wait for him to call? I just don't get why a guy online would ask for a girls number first if he was not going to call. We even knew someone in common. I really had alot in common with this guy more than any other on this site that is what sucks!!!! Thanks for your time, Brandy
I met this man on the site a few months ago. We talked on the phone everyday, I went to visit him 2 times (at his expense). After my last visit to the West Coast, I received an email from him saying, “I don’t think this long distance thing is going to work”. I am so hurt and confused and I don’t know what to do. I hope you have some advice for me. I thought we really clicked and I had such a wonderful time with him.
I live in Hong Kong and have been corresponding with a guy from the United States. He will be coming to visit on 10thAugust, in the meantime, we haven't opened web cam, we've only seen each other pictures. Our email exchange has made us known each other better, he is a busy lawyer and because of time difference we never had an extensive chat online. We had one phone call a couple of weeks ago. My issue is that I dont want to do the intimate thing too soon when he's in town and I think he knows from my profile that I'm quite conservative that way. But since he's flying here and will be quite free for a few days, I don't know what to do with his ample free time. I plan to have drinks, dinner, walking in the popular places like times square, maybe go to karaoke one night, but these are mainly activities from early evening onwards. I can't expect him to wait whole day and have nothing else to do just to but if I also offer day activities, I am worried that it is going to be too much for the beginning stage. I dont want us both to be put off by the extremes, either not see each other at all with the long distance or see each other all day long when he's in town. Please help!
I'm a 53 year old very attractive, educated woman. I'm a lot of fun and have a great sense of humor. It seems the men that like me I don't like them. They are not at all what I am looking for. The VERY FEW men I do like just don't like me... long term...strong relationship. I'm so tired of this dating scene. I want so badly to meet that man who I adore and he adores me. I'm tired....What's wrong with me? the situation? life? getting very down.
A man on the site emailed me and asked if I had a cam, does this mean that he is probably some pervert that wants sex cam?
I have been emailing with this woman from Nashville, TN. I notice that some of her emails are very poor English while others are not. How can I be sure this is not a scammer? It seems like I am communicating with 2 different people.
Is it against MM policy if members would lie about their age? I met someone who posted a different figure on his profile and found out that it was not his real age.
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